Okay what is going on????


marshmallow-octopus thanks darling!!!!! 😊


I had orientation for my new job today and it went well!!!!
My last official day at Walgreens is the 28th. 🙌🙌


Tonight I want you to celebrate yourself, your friends, everything you have and everything you don’t. For 2 hours, check yourself and make sure you´re being you!

lareinaana:

wakaflaquita:

is rice not the best link between all poc?

the most wonderful common denominator?

#ricesolidarity


I’m at the library
I REALLY have to pee
However!
I’m drinking coffee
And I don’t wanna leave my coffee alone lmao
But I don’t wanna take it in the bathroom
Real talk: what are my chances of being roofied at a public library? High? Low???????


kuunakullanvalkeana:

tbh, i find the emergence of the concept of demisexuality very interesting, and i’m partial to thinking it’s a symptom of hypersexualized patriarchal culture that demands full sexual availability of women. wanting to develop an emotional bond before having sex is actually a very common and even normative thing, yet nowadays women seem to be under so much pressure to have casual sex that they strongly identify with demisexuality to justify the limits of their sexual comfort zone.

i wonder how the idea that not wanting to have sex with people you don’t know well needs its own label might be connected with the “sex-positive” movement and its ideas of “sexual empowerment”. we’ve conceptualized being sexual (as opposed to “half-sexual”) in very strict terms and reached a point where certain sexual behaviours, such as casual sex, are not just seen as normal and accepted but actually positioned as a required part of “full” sexuality, and by doing that we’ve abnormalized not wanting to have sex with people you don’t know well, which is alarming because there is an immense pressure on women to be sexually available to men.


Anxiety-prone people are often born with a predisposition to be more emotionally reactive or volatile. Yet they often grow up in families where obtaining parental approval takes precedence over expressing their needs and feelings. As adults, they still feel it is more important to attain perfection or always be pleasing than to express strong feelings. This tendency to deny deep emotions can lead to a chronic state of tension and anxiety.
-The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook - Edmund J. Bourne, Ph. D. (via lalondes)